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Choosing a first dance song is an important decision; it’s a melody that will forever remind you of your special day. Some couples, their choice is easy because they already have “their song”. For others, the process can be overwhelming with so many options to consider.

Don’t stress! Like everything else about your wedding, the first dance should be about the couple and having the best night of your life. So let’s dive into how to find the perfect song that reflects your unique love story!

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Finding Inspiration for Your First Dance

As mentioned above, some songs just naturally have a special place in your heart, making the decision easy. Perhaps it’s the song that was playing in the background of your first date or a song that you both sing along to every time it comes on in the car. Many couples choose songs that have personal significance to them and evoke memories of a meaningful moment, while others choose to pick a song that will fit the theme of their wedding. Ultimately, most couples pick a song that conveys a message about love. Whether the song is slow and romantic or upbeat and fun, the kye is to make sure you are having a good time dancing the night away.

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Practical Picks

If you are having a live band, make sure you ask them if they can perform the song you have chosen as your first dance. Not only should they be able to play the song, but their rendition should align to your vision. Many bands have most first dance songs in their repertoire, but if you’re choosing something unconventional, make sure they are familiar with the song or are willing to learn before your wedding. If the band cannot play your song, consider if you would be okay with just having the song played over the speakers.

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Creating Meaningful Musical Moments

As a kid, I loved Taylor Swift’s “Our Song” and dreamed one day I would have a special song with my significant other too. While that never quite happened for us, it’s okay! You man be in the same boat and let me tell you, you don’t need a preexisting special song. Your first dance song can now become that cherished tune – one to remember for years to come. The hope is every time you hear the music, you can be transported back in time to the night of your wedding.

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Timeless and Trendy Songs

Still unsure and need some recommendations? Here’s a list of some of my favorites to inspire your choice!

Slow and Romantic:

Can’t Help Falling in Love- Elvis Presley

Perfect- Ed Sheeran

Beautiful Crazy- Luke Combs

All of Me- John Legend

Yellow- Coldplay

A Thousand years- Christina Perri

Say You Won’t Let Go- James Arthur

A Drop in the Ocean- Ron Pope

Little Things- One Direction

Fun and Upbeat:

You Belong with Me- Taylor Swift

I’m Yours- Jason Mraz

Better When I’m Dancing- Meghan Trainor

Shut Up and Dance- Walk the Moon

Marry You- Bruno Mars

What a Man Gotta Do- Jonas Brothers

Still Into You- Paramore

Don’t Go Breaking My Heart- Elton John

Crazy In Love- Beyonce

Timeless:

L-O-V-E- Nat King Cole

Crazy Little Thing Called Love- Queen

Fly Me to the Moon- Frank Sinatra

My Girl- The Temptations

Put Your Head on My Shoulder- Paul Anka

90s Throwback:

As Long As You Love Me- Backstreet Boys

I Wanna Dance with Somebody- Whitney Houston

Kiss Me- Sixpence None the Richer

Disney Classics:

I See the Light- Tangled

Can You Feel the Love Tonight- The Lion King

A Whole New World- Aladdin

Kiss the Girl- The Little Mermaid

Lava- Kuana Torres Kahele

Instrumental:

River Flows in You- Yiruma

Married Life- Up

You’re In Love- Howl’s Moving Castle

A Night of Shooting Stars- Ponyo

Bollywood Love:

Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai- Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

Main Agar Kahoon- Om Shanti Om

Janam Janam- Dilwale

Ishq Wala Love- Student of the Year

Teri Ore- Singh is Kinng

Tum Se Hi- Jab We Met